“looks like my little guy has been kidnapped and held for ransom.”
I literally laughed out loud!
Successful urine drainage can be deceptive at first. I typically remove the spandex sleeves or Sabre Skin, whatever the case may be, to be completely sure. Otherwise, even with the standard 2-3 finishes, there can be leakage with a powerful sneeze, of all things.
The kegel exercises will definitely help as it has a lot to do with being able to consciously relax the muscles and then time your kegel for maximum contraction after the urine has passed the muscles.
Its a good exercise in itself as you get measurable results for the effort.