Don’t get discouraged! I had issues starting out over a year ago too. Everything would go on fine in the morning, but by afternoon it had already slipped off. I ended up going down 2 sizes in girth to get the right fit. Since then I’ve gone up a size, so I am right in between. For me, my measurements in the mornings were very different than in the evening. Once I got the right size, things worked out very well for me.
Are you wearing just the innerwear, or the jacket + skin + retainer bands also? When I wore all pieces, it also helped prevent the retraction.
I found the sabre skin to be the best aid for me as well. So now I wear innerwear + stealth + skin.
Good luck and hope you can keep trying 🙂
